Judgmental

Human or should we call people will never be far from being judgmental. That is why we really concern about our first impression whenever you are about to put yourself on the stage. If you see kids running around here and there while barking and shouting in a train what would you first think about them? (Am I sounded like Sue Slyvester in Glee? haha) These kids are too noisy why on earth does their father just let them running and making riot here. This is not a playground Sir! That would be how we judge the situation but actually the kids' mother had just passed away and that is the only way for the kids to entertain and release them from the burden. That is why daddy let them playing around.

Haha, this is judgmental. Why do first impression important. Whenever I attend any grooming classes or talks they'll always remind us about first impression. This is because first impression is a typical judgment. What would your wear to meet your to-be parents in law? what about a job interview? Class? Formal dinner? Would you wear your lingerie out to meet your parents in law? oh hoho would you wear a bottle of perfume to impress them? No right, because you do not want them to think bad about you.

Cheesy huh. haha yeah so all I want to remind all and MYSELF it is normal for you to hate a person at first but try to be a good frienemy and you'll find out that those weaknesses in one can turn out to be something good and those good things about them can remain to be the best thing to talk upon. 

Have fun people finding your frienemy and judgmental is just an idea that you have to alert yourself to be aware and prepare for surprises. So long :)

P/S: these days, I feel like a motivator and a booster but all I know I'm neutral ('',)