Blair vs Chuck

In the prestigious building in Manhattan elites sometimes the door we open belongs to someone else and sometimes we let someone in only to be left out in the cold yet sometimes despite what we may want the door just has to many locks. That is when we made decisions and forgot that there will always be gold and sand. Opportunities came without alarms, it's all depends on how we will grab them and make those ours.

After watching Gossip girl, I just felt that I really want to share a thought of mine. Not talking about Manhattan elites nor talking about how really egoism can kills love but it is more on opportunities. Before that, what happen when we opened a door and behind it was something that we didn't deal for? Not all expensive doors are exquisite! There are many times when we opened the doors and found a path but there's too many obstacles that will lead us to give up and let it go into the drain.

Something that I learnt from Chuck and Blair love relation is because of both egos, they deny their feelings to each other and thought that their life are like GAMES that need us the human to compete with each other. I loved Blair because she's too protective towards her friends even that will make her as the 'bitch'. But at certain point I just felt that she's trying to push herself to far from the reality that she's not over Chuck. She's a bitch but that what makes her and Chuck connected and belong to each other. On the other hand, Chuck is too blind to to see that actually Blair is still into him. She tried her best to throw his girls out because of jealousy. Because of that, they keep on crushing the opportunities and chances to be together. I like when an analogy slip into my mind 'If Blair were to forgive Chuck, they'll be like the best couple of the century eventhough it is the hardest thing to do'. Same thing applies in a student life, It's not easy to be a student but by breaking the ice within us, we'll be the survivor. Life is about surviving the world and that is what we should do. Forget all the problems and starts to build positive thoughts and I bet we'll made through this life easier and happier.

For me, I think the door symbolized an opportunity an chance. Me for instance, I've open a door to accept the reality that I'm a student in UTP doing Petroleum Engineering. Till now actually I'm happy with my own works here as a student regardless what are the services that I received from the educators + tutors + management. I've opened the pre-final door after thousands of locks I've smashed. Soon, I'll get to the final door and I bet the door is a vault door that will have coding identification for the first locking system, then followed by voice identification and finally the password identification systems. It will not be that easy to pass the door even you're given thousands of keys to open it.

But the ultimate question will be are we that strong and determine in opening the door or just  left it locked because there's too many challenges and let ourselves down, our parents and all the educators who put efforts in helping us to walk through the road that we chose?

Why there's too many of us scared to try to attempt those opportunities. It seems like some of my friends start to giving up literally. Where have all the spirits gone? Our Petroleum Economics lecturer always tell us that there's no use for us to buck up our pointer caused even you get straight As or Bs none of it will actually affect much on the CGPA. Does the pointer tells us much about how good a person is? Tests, assignments, quizzes, presentations are all rulers to measure the knowledge that one has in the head but that can't really implies that the person is clever, intelligent or even  brilliant. Top score doesn't promises one will get a good job with the best salary. Learning is a process to make someone a better person and not to be an exam machine.

To learn something, one should really have the courage to explore more on the imperson strengths and weaknesses. To all my friends, live your life and all of these are barriers that God designed because He remembers you and loves you. All the best to all for our final year. We left with 10 months on the road and soon a better and more challenging world is waiting for us, Think positive and DO OUR BEST! :)

So long... Till next post :)