Gen Y vs BabyBoomers

Bulan Puasa ni mengajar kita bersabar dalam apa jua perkara yang kita lakukan

Dalam pada belajar bersabar ni seronok gak kalau tgk cerita2 berkisahkan tentang remaja

yang dikatakan sebagai 'jahiliah' or in a lame word kita kata tak bermoral

What is morality?

Semua agama mengajar pengikutnya tentang moral, akhlak etc

Siapakah model/idol yang terbaik kita?

Jawapan common zaman sekarang of course la celebrities/politicians

jarang la kita dgr idol remaja sekarang Nabi Muhammad (SAW) ke parents ke

Ok, bila dalam TV buat forum talking about problems yang dah sukar dibendung ni

Siapa selalunya yang menjadi panel?

Baby Boomers ke Gen X ke Gen Y?

Baby Boomers and Gen X kan, normally la maybe tak smua

Common question 'Apakah kaktor yang menyebabkan remaja sekarang bersikap sebegini?'

Sorry la kan,

soalan tentang Gen Y tapi yang comment tu Baby Boomers

I'm not saying apa yang dibahas and discuss tu salah

Everybody will have their opinions (subjective matter la katakan)

Since I'm already 23, means I dah no longer adolescent kan

I'm an adult wahahaha tak nak kalah tu so kat tgh2

Kalau la ditakdirkan TV program ni panggil I jadi panel (TAK MUNGKIN!)

My answer would be simple

'Kalau mahu remaja menjadi baik, adults wajib jadi good role model'

bukan nak buruk sangka or main pakai nak cakap je

These are based on my observations and direct experiences dalam bulan puasa

Since Ramadhan ni takde syaitan so kalau kita tak baik means bukan salah syaitan la kan

There are few cases yang melibatkan Baby Boomers and Gen Y ni

Kalau ikut kitaran waktu Baby Boomers ni are like our parents/grandparents/aunties/uncles la kan

Gen Y ni macam kita2 ni hahah

Pernah tak anda melihat orang2 tua (40 above) maki hamun, mencarut, marah2 dalam bulan puasa?

Oh, kalau tanya saya of course la pernah SEVERAL TIMES during Ramadhan je

Last year I think,

on my way back with a friend dari Perak to KL,

kat tol la ni queuing,

there was this black car from the other lane wanted to overtake my friend's car

kalau nak tau kereta tu pon dalam queue and his car was like

5th in the row

while we were on the next line dalam 6 cars to go

This pak cik (in 50) menyelit in front of us just because our line keta kecik2

so shorter line

Of course la, you are already in a line tak necessary la nak overtake other lane plak kan

So kami tak bagi la pak cik tu

nak jadikan kes, pak cik ni sudah angkat tangan tunjuk jari tengah dia to us

wahahaha kelakar sangat

 meyelit punya menyelit pakcik tu pon in front of us

kalau dier bersabar, dier dah lama dah lepas that tol

nak kata tak berilmu rasanya pak cik tu je tak berfikir panjang kot

pakcik tu angkat tangan sekali lagi tu us (around 4 times gak la)

imagine pak cik yang I think dah ada grandchildren buat macam tu

how can he be a good example to youngsters like us?

kalau kat kedai2 makan,

first come first serve

but kalau orang2 baby boomers ni

for them yang kecik kena respect yang tua

potong line tu biasa sgt la for them

as orang muda takkan kita nak tegur mak cik and pakcik tu kan

so i selalu gelak sengeh2 sinis je

hope they understand

kalau diorg dah tunjuk contoh macam tu

org2 muda ni

lagi la berani jadi daring daripada tu

It's true nobody's perfect

but we have to try to be someone yang deserve to be respect

regardless your agenor your skin color, physical appearance

semua tu Allah tak pandang

Hati itu yang penting

Soon kita pulak yang akan jadi tua

let's practice from now to be a good role model for the next generation

Bye :)

Bella - 21/08/11

Watching Bella talking about the textiles and fashion

They touch the issue on what to wear during Hari Raya

I was so attracted with the comment from Dato Shah Reza

He said during the Dubai Fashion week in Dubai early this year

most of the models from all over the world loves to wear those abayas and jubahs

because it is no longer about being sexy but is more on the textile

If you wear tight and short clothes you will never going to feel the textiles

but with those abaya you can feel it at every inch of your body

He also said that Islamic Fashion is most marketable and widest market these days as it has contributed 96 billion USD worldwide

Longer dress will need longer textile and better price

So guys don't feel outdated wearing those! Dunia dapat Akhirat pon dapat wahahaha...

Are we eating?

Food, Fashion, Fun

These 3 Fs are the weapon that Muslims are to be aware off

Let's remind ourselves that Muslims are to beaten if only if their inside are weak

what does that weak means?

Let's put it this way,

Kalau ditakdirkan perang,

would we survive or mati kat tengah-tengah?

Islam teaching is the most perfect as it covers every elements in life

Why do we keep blaming others when we are the one that weaken our strengths?

Heard of gelojoh, mencekik, melantak, polok (orang Johor cakap kot :P), mentekedarah

So are we eating or glutting?

There are 3 questions that we need to ask ourselves

1. What do we eat?

2. How much do we consume daily?

3. What time do we eat?

Are we discipline enough to take a good care of our bodies in and out

Stomach is the center of illness

The word illness brings 2 meanings (physical/mental illness and 'qalbu' illness)

Physical/Mental illnesses are those that are scientifically detected and cured

but 'qalbu' or personality disease is the major problem that a Muslim can have

Haram halal kita langgar je macam nothing

for instance waktu berbuka puasa,

kita beli  makanan and berbuka macam dah 30 tahun tak makan

after tarawikh belasah moreh pulak

supper lagi

wah tak kenyang2 perut kita ni

So, how can we say that I am a Muslim when we blindly reject the teaching from our 'MODERN' lifestyle

Ala Islam ni tak moden la -> Moden sangat ke kita manusia ni?

Sbbkan pemakanan yang tak sihat and baik (haram la senang cerita)

Hati kita resah and perut kenyang, mata mengantuk, solat tak khusyuk,

If my parents they'll say macam ular sawa baru makan kambing

then if the consumption is unlimited and tak blh nak cure dah habit tu,

badan jadi besar, otak tak cergas, badan lemah,

so if ditakdirkan orang intrude negara and perang happens (Nauzubillah)

where will we be standing in protecting the religion, country or even your family?

So friends, let's stop and think for awhile

Is it worth to eat like there's no tomorrow?

Takkan kan, it's time to change our style

Thanks for your time.

Bye for now

As-Salam

NOTE: All my posts are about what i've seen and experienced, no intention of hurting anyone. It's a fruit of thought. :)

Tudung is a trend ke wajib?

Seems like sekarang makin ramai buat tudung as fashion. Wow lilit here and there ada yang macam chaos gler kepala and ada some like ok2 sweet. But what was behind the tudung? It's just for the sake to cover your hair or is it for Allah? deng deng deng deng.

You jawab sendiri.

I think dah macam fashion sgt when a girl wears tudung and yet still pose merepek meraban (Aniq suka words ni)

Just look around you, have you heard some people cakap 'Ala tudung je atas kepala but then peluk sini peluk sana, hisap rokok, clubbing, nampak leher, baik tak payah pakai'

What does that means to you?

Kerana nila setitik rosak la susu sebelanga (betul ke my spelling?)

Yeah it's true some people mmg nak nampak fashionist bila pakai tudung ala2 sapa? Hana Tajima, Yuna.

Fine there's nothing wrong with that but why do we have to pose macam ________.

Sorry bukan I nak mengata or talk bad about others but this is something that we need to think about

What is the reason that you put on your hijab?

I suka style tudung macam Hana Tajima tu ok smua je but why para2 pemakai (followers) masih berperangai seperti wanita yang sangat sopan? (Sarcastic expression, heheh)

Tak salah but we have to control ourselves and jaga penampilan as a muslimah

Sedih when I see people ramai suka the girls with hijab but yet sama je macam tak pakai.

This is a wake up call for all of us.

I'm reminding myself as well to not to ikut those yang tak betol.

Not saying that you tak blh bersosial boleh but with limitation.

Posing tak payah kangkang kangkang, just be 'sopan'

Biar orang cakap you pemalu, it's not wrong because malu is a part of Iman.

But malu pon biar bertempat so that we will still remember that Allah is watching us 24/7.

Feel like alive balik when I have the time to update this little chatter blog. Bye~

better is better than perfect

It is actually weird when we try to be a better person and we keep failing.

But what we really don't understand is that 'perfect is never but best is ever'.

Today I try to be a different person, try on new things and determine my mind to become like someone else (I think she's way perfect than me)

What an innocent act to do when I know that I am I am, I can't never be someone else.

We have our own weaknesses and we even have our own strengths,

lately all I can see are my savage weaknesses and keep trying to imitate a better person that I think perfect than me

What an absurd action I did?

Taking off my own sweet shoe and trying to fit into others that is having bigger/smaller size than me?

So my final conclusion is 'be yourself but keep trying to walk in your shoes as fit as possible'

life is nothing when there are no challenges, pains, tears (negative essence of the world).

Tada bye :)